Mountains or a Beach ?

          Few Months before, There was a trend going on Facebook, Answering the question about your self like Where will you be living in future? City or Village? What you like most? Mountains or a Beach? Etc.
          When I read the question about Mountains and a Beach, I was a bit confused. How can someone choose in between peace of mountains & calmness of the beach?

         We go to a beach, we feel the air, that cleans your mind for some moment. There is the sound of waves but it makes you silent & makes you calm. While we climb a mountain, we feel air at some height, that time it let you think about just yourself. It disconnects you from the outer world. That's the thing every human need in his stressful life.
   Mountain & Sea both not just create inner peace but also inspire us. Sea tells us to be limitless while working just because it's the only limit is Horizon & our's is a success!
& While working for ourselves mountains teach us to be strong. Keep your base strong, keep your inner strength.
      So, Sea or Mountain both teach us like ideal teachers, inspire us to be the Best. So why Choose one of them. CHOOSE BOTH, LEARN FROM BOTH.
Agreed or not? Comment!
         

SIBLINGS - Friends or Enemies?

Hey Fellas, How you doing?
Actually, I want to ask you a question. What are you? Are you a sibling of anyone or you just enjoy being one child of your parents?
I have a sibling, A elder sister with 5 years gap. It's big. Let it be. My point is as I am a brother of someone, I know the advantages of having siblings. From my View having a sibling is good, it does not matter if younger or elder.

1. They always tease you - No matter what the situation is if they feel bored & you are sitting next to him/her. They will tease you. That is his/her best enjoyment.
2. Siblings Fights- He/She teased you & you get offended. That's his/her biggest accomplishment. Once you get offended & starts fighting, This becomes entertainment for other people in the family.

3. They know your Deepest- Darkest secrets- That's a positive thing as well as negative. The secret can be revealed if you are against him/her or Keep till death if you are with him/her.

4. You don't need Friends as well as Enemies-
If you have a sibling, You will never feel that you don't have Friends and Enemies. Because they play both characters.

If you have a sibling, I am sure you have felt this way, Don't you?

Read following Books if you want to know about Siblings Love-
1. Little Woman by Louisa May Alcott
2. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
3. Franny and Zooey by J. D. Salinger

Happy Reading!

Are you Strong EMOTIONALLY?

          What does Emotionally Weak mean?
" Crying all the time when you are in a bad situation or bad mood, etc. No! It's not like that... From my view Being Emotionally Weak means splitting out our emotion in front of anyone at any time. It is not just Crying, it also includes Happiness, Smiling, Laughing, Stress & all kind of Emotions!"

&

       
          What does Emotionally Strong mean?
" It's not just hiding your pain behind your smile. Emotionally strong means Knowing the situation & Showing the appropriate Emotion that time & knowing our self & how much we can handle that emotion. Showing off your emotion is also a necessity for being mentally healthy. Because every person has their limits. Hiding Emotion behind another emotion always is simply means You are a pervert that does not respect own emotion."

*SO BE THE STRONG ONE*

        If you want to know How to be emotionally strong, Here are my suggestions of book you can read-
1. The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz
2. The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
3.  Rising Strong by Brene Brown
4. The Five Levels of Attachment by don Miguel Ruiz

Happy Reading!

Phrases of Sawantwadi!

Hello, fellas!! How are you?

So today I am going to tell you about my place, SAWANTWADI.

     Sawantwadi is small town situated at Goa border of Maharashtra state. It's famous for Wooden Toys. Wait, isn't that blog going so typical. Let me tell you something interesting about Sawantwadi.
The phrases you definitely hear if you visit my place.

(Tip- Phrases are in native languages, translations are in brackets)

1. तलावावर फिराक जाऊया काय रे? ( Can we go to Talav for a walk?)- 

               MOTI LAKE is one of the famous spots in Sawantwadi. For old people, it is a place to talk about India, economy, Modi sarkar & so much stuff & for college students, it's a place to meet, to have a get-together.

Moti Lake in Night !

2. जिमखान्यार खेळाक येतंय रे? (Are you coming to play at Gymkhana?)-

                    Gymkhana, it also has another name as Chendu-Fali (चेंडू-फळी). At gymkhana, There is a Big ground where boys love to play cricket, football. 

3. मोहोत्सव कधी आसा रे? (When will be mohotsav going to held?)-

               Mahotsav is like a fun fair held in Sawantwadi once in the year. It helds when Christmas Vacations are going on. It's the time when every Sawantwadikar enjoys the night at Moti Lake.

4.चल गोव्याक जावया. (Let's go to Goa)-

Goa plans are not a big deal for Sawantwadi peoples. Boys from sawantwadi call each other, get their bikes & just go to Goa! Simple.

"When a person far from Goa talking about Goa front of Sawantwadikar."
                                                                                👇

Some of my photographs of places in Sawantwadi! 

Jagannath Rao Bhosale Garden, Sawantwadi

Rani Parvati Devi High School & Jr. 

College, Sawantwadi

21st century's Long Distance Relationship

"He was running everywhere on the station, Looking for charging slot,
He needed to charge his phone!
No! He is not a phone addict who can not live without a phone.
He is a life partner of someone
who is not near to him
& it was the time in a day
where they are going to meet & he did not want to miss a second
to see her, to praise Her Beauty
to tell her that He loves her
ALOT!"

My Way of being Stress Free!!

Have you ever felt stress? 
Sorry! How dumb question I asked! Hahahaha
We are human , we feel this emotion every single day . But my question is how you deal with it?
          Every person has different ways of relaxing, like talking with other people, some get silent till they feel relax, some even eats their favorite food. There are many such ways.
          Do you know what I do?

          I watch puppies playing or listen to kittens loud 'Meow Meow'. From my view, When you watch a cute small dog doing its small foolish things like biting wood or just hiding behind a stone or just running to bite your shoe.
It's so much cute that you forget about your stress for a few moments & you get refresh!
Do you know the plus point of this thing? You do not need to do anything. You just need to keep your eyes open.
             According to psychology, when you see something beautiful your brain secreates some kind of enzymes which relaxes your brain & that is all we need in our stress time! Don't we?
           Would you like to try my way of relaxing!
Here, watch the video, You might feel relax!
THANK YOU!!

The "BEST" Morning

I just want you next to me, when we sleep at night.....
So when I woke up , the first thing I'll see in the morning is YOU,
Your messed up hairs..
Your childish face ....
& Your eyes full of love...

I just want you by my side!!!!

The first thing I'll do in the morning is that I'll kiss you....
The kiss that gives more Refreshment than any of the tea in the world....
Your Touch of Wet Lips which let the blood flow through my every vain & keep me alive .....
& I'll have Smell of your naked body which tells me that "Just do not leave her... She is just made for you."

अपूर्ण

अपूर्णत्व काय आहे माहीत आहे का?
मला माहीत आहे...
तो एक दिवस खास आहे तुझ्यासाठी,
पण तो साजरा करण्यासाठी "ती" तुझ्या बाजूला नाही आहे, म्हणजे तो दिवस अपूर्ण आहे,

मंद झुळझुळ ऐकत नदीच्या किनारी तू शांत बसलाय,
पण त्या शांततेत "ति"च्या श्वासाचा आवाज ऐकू येत नसेल , तर ती शांतता अपूर्ण आहे,

बाहेर पावसाची थंड सर पडतेय, पण "ती" जर त्यावेळी तुला उष्मा द्यायला तुझ्या कवेत नसेल तर तो पाऊस अपूर्ण आहे,

यश तुझ्या हाताशी आहे, पण यश मिळवताना जर "ति"चा हात तुझ्या हातात नसेल तर ते यश अपूर्ण आहे,

अन
तू राजा असलास जगाचा तरी, "ती" नसेल प्रेम करायला तुझ्यावर तर तू पूर्ण नाही आहेस.

कविता- From Pratham's View
छायाचित्र- आदित्य पुराणिक

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चित्र- Bhakti Dalvi

माझ्या
#अप्रिय_पित्यास ,
              "साष्टांग नमस्कार! माफ करा तुम्ही या पात्रतेचे नाही आहात तरी म्हणते! असो. पत्र लिहिण्यास कारण कि , तुमच्यावर थोडासा राग व्यक्त करायचा होता.
              बुचकळ्यात नका पडू, मी सांगते, का मला राग आलाय तुमच्यावर. कारण तुम्ही मला जन्मालाच घातल नाहीत. माझ्या आईच्या उदारताच माझा गळा घोटलात. मला हे जग दाखवण्याचं जरासुद्धा कष्ट घेतलात नाही.
              का? का तुम्ही मला मारलात? मी काय वाईट केलेलं? तुम्ही एका मुलीचे पिता होणार याची लाज वाटत होती का तुम्हाला ? किती छोटे विचार आहेत तुमचे. कीव येते मला तुमच्या विचारांवर.
              एक सांगते, तुम्ही फक्त मला नाही मारल, एका स्त्रीला मारालात, एका आईला, एका बहिणीला , एका गोड गोष्ट सांगणाऱ्या आजीला मारालात तुम्ही! आणि माझ्यामुळे सगळं कृत्य तुमचं असूनही आईला जो त्रास दिलाय त्याबद्दल तर मी तुम्हाला कधीच माफ करणार नाही. या सगळ्याच पाप घेऊन कुठे जाणार तुम्ही?
              खरा नपुंसक तो नसतो जो एखाद्या स्त्रीसोबत संबंध ठेवत नाही. खरा नपुंसक तर तो असतो जो एका स्त्रीलिंगी अपत्याला जन्मालाच घालत नाही. एखाद्या स्त्रीवर बलात्कार झाल्यावर जेवढा त्रास होतो, तेवढाच त्रास मला होत होता त्यावेळी, अन तुम्ही वडील असून तुम्हाला जरासुद्धा काळजी वाटत नव्हती. हि खरी लाजिरवाणी गोष्ट आहे.
              तुम्हाला माझ्याबद्दल ज्यावेळी कळलं त्यावेळी लाज वाटली, पण जर तुम्ही मला जन्म दिला असता तर कदाचित मी असं काही केलं असत ज्याने तुमची छाती गर्वाने पुढे आली असती.
              लोकांना वाटत असेल की मी दुर्दैवी आहे, पण नाही. मी एक सुदैवी स्त्री आहे कारण मी जग बघितलं नाही पण जर जगात तुमच्या सारखे पुरुष असतील तर वाचले मी न जन्म घेऊन।"

                                                तुमचीच
                                                #जन्माला_न_आलेली
                                                मुलगी

लेखन - FromPratham'sView

#SaveGirlChild